spiderwick chronicles Easter Egg - Spider Man Reference

In the movie "The Spiderwick Chronicles" the boy "Jared" gets upset with his mother and tells her "I hate you." Then she leaves. At the time this seams like a minor tantrum, but later in the movie when he is in a realm with Mr. Spiderwick and is very upset about what he told his mother and said "The last thing I said to my mother was I hate you." The same scenario as in the first Spider Man where Uncle Ben got shot but then things get weird because Mr. Spiderwick replies "with great knowledge comes great responsibility." Off of the famous saying "with great power comes great responsibility," said by Uncle Ben before getting shot. And this might be a coincidence but it is kind of strange the movie "Spiderwick" is making a referance to "spider" man